“Deacons, likewise, are to be men worthy of respect, sincere, not indulging in much wine, and not pursuing dishonest gain. They must keep-hold of the deep truths of the faith with a clear conscience. They must first be test; and then if there is nothing against them, let them serve as deacons.
In the same way, their wives are to be women worthy of respect, not malicious talkers but temperate and trust-worthy in everything.
A deacon must be the husband of but one wife and must manage his own children and household well. Those who have served well gain an excellent standing and great assurance in their faith in Christ Jesus.”
– 1 Timothy 3:8-13